How To Live Better? #1 Secret Revealed

Who Is Your #1 Fan? Why Does It Matter?

We all struggled with self-sabotage at times—procrastination, comparing ourselves to others, negative self-talk, talking ourselves out of possibilities, picking a fight, getting stuck in time-wasting activities…you name it. 

Why did we do that? 

Because, at times, we wanted to avoid feeling our pains.

So, when did we sabotage ourselves?

When we’re disappointed, confused, or upset… with ourselves…

… When we doubted ourselves…

… When we dwelled on our past regrets…

… When naysayers provoked us… you name it. 

At times, you may ask yourself, “Am I the only person who is struggling with that?”

The answer is NO. Many people struggle with self-sabotage. 

May I ask you this question—what pains do you want to avoid right now? 

Okay… Let me share mine first.

My pains come from the fear of public humiliation.

When I was younger, the fear of public humiliation was like a shadow following me.

I was afraid of speaking up in school because I thought what I said didn’t matter. 

I was quiet in meetings because I felt what I had to say didn’t matter. 

Deep down, I thought I didn’t matter…

Have you ever thought that you didn’t matter? 

If so… you’ve sabotaged yourself…

So, how might we stop sabotaging ourselves? 

I mentioned I was afraid of speaking up because I felt I didn’t matter… But…

… Something happened. 

When I was in college, I became outspoken… because… I got fans.

When I progressed in my career, I became courageous… because… I got fans.

You may ask, “You got fans… did you get naysayers as well?”

OF COURSE! 

Naysayers will never stop doubting you and what you do!

THE TRUTH—

Your naysayers will never stop doubting you…but… you can stop listening, debating, or giving in to your naysayers. 

So, who is your #1 naysayer?

What if… you are your #1 naysayer? 

How are you going to stop self-doubt from holding you back? 

We all need fans… So, who is your #1 fan?

Let me ask you… For the past week…

• Who cheered you on? 
• Who celebrated your success? 
• Who comforted you when you’re down? 

Let me ask you some more questions…

• Do you want to stand up for yourself and what you believe? 
• Do you want to stop paying attention to the naysayers? 
• Do you want to start taking micro-actions to create big change?
• Do you want to take the courage to say no to what you don’t want? 
• Do you want to say yes to yourself? Do you want to say yes now? 

If so, let me be your #1 fan now.

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